We, humanity, from ancient times valued three things - wealth, life, and love (don’t worry, it’s
random order). And during all progress, the meaning of these words can change from man
to man, woman to woman, the only thing that remains unchanged is that we still need it. In
our age, love comes in all possible shapes: gay, interracial, serious, or not at all. ‘Tis new
form we call “sexual need” is one of them. And here's the question popping up - “I don’t want
any commitments, but I want to fulfill my sexual needs. What should I do?” Shall we explain?
Modern people are used to modern solutions. As long we live, so long we try to undo
complications and make everything easy. So, it might be correct to say that everything we
touch - goes online. The same can be said about sex dating. Let’s shed some light on sex
dating, online platforms, and tips on how to jump straight into action safely.
Find a partner on a dating site, and don't hide your upfront feelings
Let’s be honest, following your sexual needs means you are not interested in any
relationships except those that start at midnight and end early morning. Right? So what
would be more interesting for you? Paying a visit to a local brothel? Yeah, they still exist.
Nah, there are more interesting ways. When trying to find someone to have casual
relationships with, you ought to think about your safety, both physical and mental. And here
where dating sites come in. Choosing between a prostitute who welcomes you as just a
client or a like-minded person who can become just a friend with benefits, most people
choose second. And you won’t find that person in a cat house.
Finding a partner on a dating site is a profitable course of action, especially if the platform is
legit. You ought to find women to fuck and choose from countless profiles. And so you can
search on your own or trust matchmaking tools, which every dating site has. But here’s
advice - you have one goal, don’t mess it up. Don’t lie on your profile. Don’t lie about your
intentions. These are sex dating sites, and most people have the same goal: no one expects
you to stay for long. So you shouldn’t too. If you’re excited - be excited.
Learn from your past and lay out your needs
Freedom of traditional bonds and relationships is awesome. And every person who lives for
personal pleasure will agree. Oh, no, we don’t call serious relationships a mistake. This is
Mother Nature. But nature also made sex..so we don’t judge people following the best half of
the main instincts. That said, if you had traumatic relationships in the past, and you decided
to make it casual all the next time - leave your past where it lies but keep what you’ve been
taught.
If you seek sex without emotional damage and without visiting brothels - just be yourself. It’s
about being honest with yourself, even more than being honest with others. If you want
someone to praise your look and have a good time together - go for it. No bonds. No
commitment. But make sure your partner wants the same. And, if you want sex but also
want someone to be bound to you - you’ve made the wrong pick. See, it’s easy. Just come
up clear with what you want and go for it without garbage from your past.
Keep your comfort zone
What is comfort zone for ye? ‘Tis important because of two things:
First, when joining the ranks of casual daters, there is a high chance you will be kicked out of
your safe, comfortable bubble, especially if you’re a newbie. Leave out all your expectations
and focus only on what you want. As we said above, don’t be distracted by your past fears,
mistakes, or regrets. Casual dating is as unexpected as fun, and there is no term “serious,”
so whatever happens - don’t take it close to your heart. Just relax and enjoy.
The second side of the comfort zone is your boundaries. Yes, you might be torn out of your
comfort zone unexpectedly, but it doesn’t mean it’s unavoidable. Not at all. It is your fun and
your life. You don’t owe anything, not to anyone. ‘Tis means you shouldn’t do things you
don’t like to do. And by keeping this in mind, you might keep your bubble safe. But
remember, it goes both ways - your sex partner doesn’t owe you anything unless you agree
on something else.
Conclusion
Casual dating and hookups are fun experiences, and most people are relieved they can
choose them among all commitments. As we used to search for a partner online, the rules of
communication are always the same: being yourself, being fair, et cetera, et cetera. As if
nothing changed in this life, right? If you want sex - go get it. If you want sex and additional
perks like friendship or something more - you’ll work it out. Just don’t deceive yourself with
false expectations and go forward without the struggles of the past. Fulfilling sexual needs
online is about fun without commitments, not about love and bonds.